CRPS is sometimes called The Suicide Disease because of the sense of hopelessness that comes with unrelenting, excruciating pain. It is critically important that people with CRPS find ways to support their mental, emotional and spiritual health. Here are a few ways I believe this can be done:
1. Create a support network.
People with CRPS often rely heavily on family members and friends for help with activities they can no longer do. Nurturing these relationships, sharing information and personal feelings, and being gracious when others do not understand will prevent burning out these resources. Have literature available (the RSDA.org website is very helpful) that explains your condition in ways you cannot. Give your caregivers and family information on support groups dedicated to them. Don't expect what someone cannot give. If they are not naturally empathetic, don't expect them to be kind and affirming when you're in a flare. If they have never experienced serious pain, don't expect them to understand all the ways it affects your body and soul. Find people who are empathetic and kind - as many as you can, and be willing to ask for help when you need it.
2. Nurture a spiritual life. Whatever your personal belief system, seek to go deeper spiritually to find hope, peace, and serenity in the moments that are hard. Spiritual direction is a powerful tool in examining and developing your inner life and relationship with the Divine. Spiritual practices such as reading, prayer, journaling, meditation, and others are vital tools and resources. If you are part of a faith community, find ways to keep involved and in touch. Let them pray for you, and use your gifts to contribute as you can. Often our sense of purpose comes from our spiritual life, and purpose can be fulfilled even by people living with a condition as awful as CRPS.
3. Strengthen your mental and emotional health. Journaling is a wonderful tool to track your thoughts and emotions and become more objective, something that is important when living with chronic pain. Mindfulness meditation can empower you to separate your emotional response to pain from the physical sensation, making the pain easier to manage. Cognitive behavioral therapy is highly useful in learning to identify and challenge negative and destructive thoughts that lead to anxiety and depression.
Being vigilant about creating and maintaining a healthy inner life will allow someone living with the pain of CRPS to be happy, productive and fulfilled.