Three words, Research, research, research.
Do Not let anyone tell you that it is a "nuisance" condition. Do not let anyone diminish the shock of finding out you have an incurable barely recognized or treated disease. If you know more about your condition than your Doctor or nurse it's time to change providers. Do not let anyone minimize or marginalize you or your symptoms.
There are many women in the world with amazing support groups filled with information, advice and an understanding ear, visit them often but when it becomes to much don't be afraid to take a step back for a few months. Many times you only read the horror stories and you don't want to let it get to you. great news isn't written about as often as people needing support through a difficult time.