Short answer · Medically reviewed summary · Last updated: 2026-05-08

Trichotillomania is a complex body-focused repetitive behavior characterized by the recurrent pulling out of one’s hair, often accompanied by intense emotional cycles of anxiety, shame, and temporary relief. While there is no single cure, an integrated approach combining psychological therapy, potential medication management, and community support can significantly improve quality of life for those living with Trichotillomania. What is the best approach to managing Trichotillomania? Living with Trichotillomania can feel isolating, but understanding that it is a recognized clinical condition is the first step toward self-compassion.

11 people with Trichotillomania have shared their first-person experience on this question at DiseaseMaps.

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Which advice would you give to someone who has just been diagnosed with Trichotillomania?

Advice for the newly diagnosed with Trichotillomania, written by people who have lived it. What they wish they had known on day one.

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Trichotillomania is a complex body-focused repetitive behavior characterized by the recurrent pulling out of one’s hair, often accompanied by intense emotional cycles of anxiety, shame, and temporary relief. While there is no single cure, an integrated approach combining psychological therapy, potential medication management, and community support can significantly improve quality of life for those living with Trichotillomania.



What is the best approach to managing Trichotillomania?


Living with Trichotillomania can feel isolating, but understanding that it is a recognized clinical condition is the first step toward self-compassion. The most effective management strategies focus on behavioral regulation and emotional support. Current clinical practices often include the following:



  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Specifically Habit Reversal Training (HRT) to identify triggers and replace pulling behaviors.

  • Pharmacological Support: While no FDA-approved medication exists specifically for Trichotillomania, some clinical studies suggest that N-acetylcysteine (NAC) may help reduce the intensity of urges by approximately 40% in some patients.

  • Dermatological Care: Routine check-ups to manage integumentary system health, including scalp or skin irritation resulting from hair pulling.



How can I build a supportive care team?


Because Trichotillomania involves both psychological and physiological components, your care team should ideally include a psychiatrist or psychologist specializing in habit disorders and a dermatologist. Coordinating care between these specialists ensures that both the underlying anxiety and the physical impact on the skin and hair are addressed simultaneously.



Why should I join the Trichotillomania community?


Connecting with others is vital for reducing the "guilt" and "hopelessness" often associated with the condition. Currently, over 529 people with Trichotillomania have joined the DiseaseMaps.org community to share their experiences. Engaging with this group provides emotional validation and practical tips from others who truly understand the daily challenges of Trichotillomania.



Next steps



  • Consult a psychiatrist or psychologist experienced in body-focused repetitive behaviors.

  • Join the 529 members on DiseaseMaps.org to share your journey and find peer support.

  • Discuss the potential use of NAC with your physician to see if it is an appropriate addition to your management plan.

  • Monitor your triggers and emotional patterns using a daily journal to help your therapist tailor your treatment.



Medical disclaimer: This content is for informational purposes only and does not constitute professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment; always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions regarding a medical condition.



References



  • NIH Genetic and Rare Diseases Information Center (GARD): Trichotillomania.

  • The TLC Foundation for Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors (bfrb.org).

  • PubMed: Meta-analyses on the efficacy of N-acetylcysteine in impulse control disorders.

  • DiseaseMaps.org: Community insights and patient-reported data.

Author: DiseaseMaps Editorial Team
Reviewed against authoritative medical sources (NIH GARD, Orphanet, OMIM)
Last updated: 2026-05-08
Sources cited: NIH Genetic and Rare Diseases Information Center (GARD): Trichotillomania. · The TLC Foundation for Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors (bfrb.org). · PubMed: Meta-analyses on the efficacy of N-acetylcysteine in impulse control disorders. · DiseaseMaps.org: Community insights and patient-reported data. · WHO
Medical disclaimer: This information does not substitute professional medical advice. Always consult your doctor before making health decisions.
Source: DiseaseMaps.org
12 answers
Love yourself anyway.

Posted Aug 10, 2017 by Katlyn 1400
Don't take it as it's not something that can't be beaten, anything's possible, you've just got to get past the urges! If they send you for cbt (cognitive behavioural therapy) take it there could be a under line reason for your pulling and you just don't realise.

Posted Aug 10, 2017 by Lucyeleanor2601 2620
You are not crazy. The fact that you pull does not mean that you do not have your s*** together. It may also not mean that you are dealing with deeper psychological issues or hiding from past trauma. It is an impulse control disorder, that's it. And there are ways to lessen its impact. Don't depend on what your doctor or health professional says - do your own research. They may not know the condition well themselves and could be giving you unhelpful advice. Find others affected and see what has worked for them.

Posted Aug 10, 2017 by Shirley 2150
Just remember, you are more than your hair. Quitting can be hard work, and if you break your pull-free streak, don't give up! It happens to all of us. Some go pull free for months, even years, before relapsing. Just brush yourself off and move on. You've got this.

Posted Aug 10, 2017 by Ellen 2161
Don't let it define you. You as a person haven't changed, and you are not just some "bald freak" as many people like to say. You are still you and there are a lot of us like you, so stay strong and speak to people who have dealt with it. It may help you stop making the mistakes people have made before and we may be able to reassure you life isn't as bad as you think it will be when you have trich.

Posted Aug 12, 2017 by Catswithtatts 1650
Get 2 journals. One for emotions. The other for patterns. List diet, exercise, emotions, etc. to see if pulling can be associated with something like milk, depression, or possible triggers. It is one way to stay "in charge" of something you cannot control. When they emotion journal is full, burn it, bury it, keep it, whatever will help you deal with it.

Posted Sep 10, 2017 by Cynthia 1502
be kind to yourself, be gentle and love yourself. Join help groups. Trichotillomania(TTM)Awareness and other Facebook groups were created to help encourage others suffering the same.

Posted Oct 19, 2017 by Felicia@Face2FaceSpa 2000
Find a good support system. There are facebook groups, national centers for body-focused repetitive behaviours that put on events, therapists, etc. Know and try to accept that this is not your fault, and work towards controlling it and minimizing the effects. You are no less attractive or lovable with your condition.

Posted Oct 20, 2017 by Sari 2050
it's not the end of the world. You can be normal, and productive and happy. You are not just your hair, you are so much more! Be patient and kind with yourself, pull-free life is not the end all, be all. You can be a puller and still be a healthy, well adjusted member of society. Don't listen to those who wish to push you down....and finally...find your community. We're out there, just look for your people. There is strength in numbers, and it is a healing experience.

Posted Oct 20, 2017 by bennersk 2190
Love and accept yourself ❤
You're not alone ❤
Seek help always ❤

Posted Jan 27, 2018 by Vee 2770
Loving and accepting yourself before all else.

Posted May 25, 2018 by natasha 400

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