You can ABSOLUTELY be happy living with AVM! The main thing I suggest is to:
1. Remain positive
2. Look at the bright side (no matter how bad off you are, someone is always worse off.
3. HELP OTHERS- you’ll be surprised how good it can make you feel to assist others. Everyone is fighting their own battle but we CAN and SHOULD help each other out. Join support groups. Share your story. Reach out to others.
4. Listen to your body- relax when you’re tired. Get out when you feel up to it. Do as much as you can.
5. Try alternative treatments rather than a bunch of medicines. Be open to things like acupuncture, massage, body work, reiki, PRAYER. (Note: this doesn’t mean not to take your prescribed meds... WHEN IN DOUBT, talk to your DOCTORS)
6. Do your own research. Take an active role in your treatment. Know what your options are and research the various options before making decisions. Talk with your family and let them have a say in what you choose, when possible. Own your disease. Come prepared to every doctor’s appointment with QUESTIONS. Ask them all. (Note: I use my smart phone to jot down questions for each specialist. I use NOTES. I insert photos and links to websites that talk about my questions/issues. I don’t leave until my doctor has addressed them all.
7. ** Most important **
BE PATIENT WITH YOURSELF
LISTEN TO YOUR BODY
REALIZE THIS IS A MARATHON, Not a Sprint
Good luck on your personal journey. Today you may be a newly diagnosed AVM sufferer, but someday you’ll be a SURVIVOR.