Living with Fibromyalgia. How to live with Fibromyalgia?

Living with Fibromyalgia: how patients cope day to day and stay positive - real experiences and practical tips.

Posted Feb 28, 2017 by fathimath 1030

Keep the mind active:
Volunteer
Church or faith group
Craft groups/knitting circle
Anything that you find that helps your mental/ physical/ emotional/ spiritual health is a good thing!

Posted Mar 24, 2017 by Kerry 1000

A positive attitude definitely helps. I won't lie, it's VERY HARD to stay positive. To keep fighting and not give up. But yes it is possible to have a fairly ok quality of life, as long as you are careful and don't ignore your body. You can lead a happy life if you want to, you just have to make some concessions/adjustments to how things used to be done vs now. The key is to not let your disease define you. Stop saying can't and start saying can with modifications. Mind over matter.

Posted Jun 24, 2017 by Tiffiane 4151

I beleive the answer to this is yes, I feel if you can be positive then it helps so much, yes we are limited in what we can do but do things you enjoy and think positive

Posted Sep 8, 2017 by Sarah 2500

My advice would be don't let fibromyalgia run your life. It's your life and you have to make the most of it. So ok you can't climb Mount Everest anymore but you might be able to help others with fibromyalgia. It's your body and your life. Don't focus on what you can't do, but rather celebrate what you can do. You might find out that you have hidden talents.

Don't let fibro define you

Posted Mar 16, 2018 by Hazel 800

Try to practice self care. Don't try to do too much. Rest is important and insomnia is a symptom of Fibro. Make sure you are getting adequate rest. Because my Fibro Fog is so bad, I write notes to myself so I won't forget tasks or appointments . You find little ways to compensate. I have also found that having pets helps with my depression. My little dogs are my best friends. My family chips in to do things around the house if I am tired or in too much pain. You can become really isolated. Especially if you don't work outside the home.

Posted Sep 24, 2018 by 6000

It's a struggle. You need to learn to be kind to yourself and rest when needed

Posted Jul 23, 2021 by Katie 900

The first step is accepting that you have it, as well as accepting that your life may not go as planned or as you wish. Prioritize what you spend your energy on. An example of this would be paying someone to clean your home, or downsizing and living in a smaller space, or minimalist design so that you spend less time cleaning and more time doing things that you enjoy. I think that is good advice for anyone, but especially for those of us with Fibro. If you are no longer able to do physically demanding jobs, phone training, and a job where you can work from home or at least work from a desk. Therapy helps as well as having close friends or family who will be supportive and there for you. If you’re no longer able to do physically demanding hobbies, find hobbies that you can do in the comfort of your home. The biggest piece of advice is to remove the major stressors from your life. If your major stress comes from caretaking a family member, get help from others to care for that family member. You must reduce your stress.

Posted Jul 23, 2023 by Impatientgirl 3000

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Of course you can be happy. The fb is not a constraint to disfrutat of all li good that life offers.
What is there to do?
Only to live, to accept that we have a condition, that if, limits us; but we are still alive

Posted Feb 20, 2017 by Cristina 1051

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If, to enjoy the moments with fewer symptoms every day, having a positive attitude helps a lot to cope with the disease, not to create expectations before the acceptance, the support and understanding of each member of the family.
Look for some activity q you comfort and may take in the moments q you to feel good, accept now in this condition, do not feel shame or guilt, forgive you, if you think q are you guilty of being sick. Now it is time to give priority to your body, not to others, little by little q will not affect the q others think or say

Posted Mar 24, 2017 by 1000

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Accept the condition and take care of their health with variety of treatments including medicine and alternative holistic therapies, having a balanced emotional and spiritual asset.

Posted Apr 12, 2017 by Ana Claudia Mariotto 2351

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Believe in yourself, trust in the treatment of his medical knowledge is also treatment then law too,don't expect the other to understand what do not you understand ,always ask for help, learn to say NO ,always do what makes you happy and not what will make the other happy.

Posted Apr 13, 2017 by Elem 1000

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Studying always.
Pursuant to the recommendations of the professionals inserted in the treatment of Fibromyalgia and its comorbidities.
Seeking to find more within yourself, as a person.
There is an amazing shift after acceptance. We see life in a different way. Everything needs to change, and we are capable of that and much more.
Although some still do not believe me, there is how to find alternatives and new friends.
A Support Group has a very important role at this time.
The Abrafibro - Assoc Brasileira dos Fibromiálgicos - www.facebook.com/abrafibro.fibromialgia or reading important articles on the site/blog credibility such as: www.fibromialgia.com.br or our blog http://abrafibro.blogspot.com.br help you a lot. Be among those who can make you understand and bring relevant information makes the difference.

Posted Apr 17, 2017 by ABRAFIBRO - ASSOC BRAS DOS FIBROMIÁLGICOS 1190

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And need to learn to live with the symptoms. It is possible yes, however it is necessary to be very persistent.

Posted May 9, 2017 by Roberta 1000

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To be happy is the concept of to be able to release hormones of happiness and dopamine among some, but that depends on the psyche and the resilience ladies and gentlemen, the pain is so great that no human-being esperimenta in the transurso of your life before was not known but the treatments of pain are very good and the specialist are very good

Posted Jul 2, 2017 by isabel suazo 2436

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As I many of us live and learn with this disease to appreciate more the life and our relationships and we are able to help by Empathy to others who are ill whether of this or another chronic disease, it is clear that if you can be happy because a disease is not who I am , just me with my will I wish to continue living and helping and enjoying determined my course.

Posted Sep 2, 2017 by Norma 840

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1.-ACCEPTING THE DISEASE
2.-IF
3.-BE POSITIVE AND INFORMANDOSE BECOMING MORE AND MORE OF THIS DISEASE

Posted Sep 8, 2017 by Aurora 2500

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You must live, day-to-day taking advantage of when you don't have pain, and yes you can be happy with fibromyalgia, being with people that might surround us, feeling understood, accompanied, and enjoying every moment

Posted Sep 12, 2017 by Soledad 2000

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We have to live with it, that is not ñ possible, chronic disease, inability, that in the box, very sad, feeling useless, without support from the government and even of society, if N we can work, we could at least get some benefit with the INSS, this would give the minimum conditions to afford the medicines that are nothing more than a palliative.

Posted Sep 16, 2017 by Phoenix 1000

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Opt for resilience rather than staying in the frustration... Adopt a creative attitude and to reorganize his life according to our new reality... Do housework in our relationship and surround yourself with people who have compassion without pity for you... Have realistic goals, and go by small steps at a time... every day Finding reasons why you can be grateful for your life... Releasing the emotions of grief, anger, sadness, etc And to express to then be able to free yourself from it quietly and continue to move forward... See the glass of water half full and not half empty... Look to the professionals for help or support group... Prepare yourself mentally to face very difficult periods where sometimes even you will want to die and find reasons to cling to life and also arm yourself with the emergency numbers in case you need help... Do not let yourself be reached by the judgment of the people... Be honest and attentive to you the same... Find new activities that you are good... Stay open and curious... try new things... have a pet... Do a bit of volunteer work... But always think of yourself first... Take very care of you... Be less of a perfectionist... to Accept to be imperfect and to have your weaknesses... Having a lot of gentleness towards you even when you even...

Posted Sep 30, 2017 by Marie Hélène Champoux 2550

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There are few moments, and in my case it is true I am ashamed to be so sometimes I would not want to, nor that the sun rose again, and in the best of cases I would like to be invisible so as not to give discomfort

Posted Oct 15, 2017 by Ana 600