Acceptance!!! You have to accept that you have a disease, and though you didn't choose to have the disease, you still have the disease. You are not the first person in the world to have it, you won't be the last, and you're not the only one who is suffering from it right now. There is no cure for it, but if you're lucky enough to have found it, or them, before too much nerve damage was done, and you can get the proper treatment, then you should be able to live the rest of your life as normal as if you didn't have the disease. If you are like those of us who were not that lucky, you can do one of three things. You accept it, change it, or eliminate it. If you have a Tarlov cyst, then you can't just change it, because you already have it, and you can't eliminate it, because it's there, and you probably don't have magical powers, but that would be cool wouldn't it, so you just have to accept it. You should do as much research as possible about Tarlov cysts, join support groups, and learn to adapt to your new life. There are many ways to address the pain, and there are other lifestyle changes that you may have to make, but you can learn to do the things that you need to do, and over time you will learn better, and easier ways to do those things, but it all comes down to one thing. Do you want to live in misery, or do you want to adapt, and overcome the change that you have had happen in your life, and make the decision to be happy with the life that you have.