It is a process in which the acceptance of the limitations, it seems a purpose that is unattainable, but you can get to live well.
Tap reevaluate all of our concepts, project life, and life itself.
But something that I don't agree is that we condemn them to endure intense pain and that not just ask us to endure pain, but give cone if you don't have to.
After passing by many urologists that told me that there was nothing to do and that I get used to not sleep, study, rest, and to be able to focus, an intense pain interferes with everything, I found professionals who did everything possible to help lessen the pain and they succeeded. I still believe that my pain is high, in some moments, and I restrict a lot but I'm struggling to handle it better.
The conflict, in my opinion, is that the CI generates a little or a lot disabled by the pain, the tiredness and the urgency to urinate, a basic need of the human being who does not wait to be resolved, make it difficult to fulfill daily responsibilities and as our disability is invisible, so often are, unfairly, pressured to comply.
This is something that comes and goes, some days are good, some bad, some facilities for the affected CI would be of much help.
The possibility of having priority seating on public transportation, priority attention in health and public services, the possibility to ask for a bathroom in any place, and for those who are very affected a degree of disability sufficient to obtain a pension.
But it is not to be frightened, and with diet and treatment to control the symptoms in most of the cases, but my pain and the urgency never go for me at all and I think it is fair to have more facilities to be able to have more freedom.
I live happy, I found it hard, even hard for me, but if some things change, the access to the available treatments is easier and it encourages research about this disease, it is practically void of research, you can retrieve a lot of quality of life.